Soccer Mom II
by John Briggs on 9/11/2009 4:56:20 PM
Re: Soccer Mom II
by F U on 10/19/2009 7:07:34 PM
Message Soccer Mom II was posted by John Briggs, on 9/11/2009 4:56:20 PM. Look you obviously have too much time on your hands, how goes the job search? I don't care to read what other people have posted because they have no idea about OUR situation. Do they know all of the crap you have done, or more appropriately haven't done? I could post some thing like that and get my own responses seeing my side. Should I post something to the affect of should a father get visitations with his kids if he is over 2 months past due on his child support? Our parenting plan states it very clear, I am done with this! Show up and I will take the kids home period.
6.2 ~ Both parents shall keep themselves advised of significant school, athletic, cultural and social events in which the children participate. Each parent shall provide the other, promptly upon request with significant information...
I know this because it is something that I had put in, doesn't apply. I have always provided you with the schedules for your weekends. Yes you can keep yourself advised, obviously after 6yrs your taking advantage of this but it says nothing about your right to show up.
6.5 ~ the parents shall attempt to cooperate and coordinate such acts of consent or permission.
Again, doesn't apply. This says nothing of your rights to intrude on my weekend. It states only that I should "attempt to cooperate".
Now if you look a couple pages before under "DECISION MAKING"
4.1 states "Each parent shall make decisions regarding the day-to-day care and control of each child while the children are residing with that parent".
This does apply and is very clear. I have the law on my side here.
Let it go, feel lucky that you have been able to enjoy all these years of watching your kids without the worry of paying for everything and 5 nights of practices or even better 2 nights with the kids at different ends of town practicing at about the same time. You talk about the kids feelings? They have been fine with the way it has been going, you starting all of this (going against the parenting plan) is putting them in a bad position.
Yes, I am the soccer mom, always have been and always will be.
There is nothing more to be said, again the parenting plan is very clear, the law is on my side. If you choose to respond your email will go straight to the trash bin, I'm done. If you should decide to continue the emails I will do as I have in the past and block you.
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